Article: A new future needs a new conversation

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A new future needs a new conversation

In conversation with Peter Block during his workshop at the Inspired Leadership Conference, SOIL, we rediscover the importance of community and conversations in creating a distinct future
 

This is a unique experience with a master facilitator that is meant for those who truly wish to make a difference and take this work to the next level.

 

People have a chance to express their doubts and reservations, as a way of clarifying their roles within the vision and mission being presented

 

In conversation with Peter Block during his workshop at the Inspired Leadership Conference, SOIL, we rediscover the importance of community and conversations in creating a distinct future...

Leadership is the capacity to give the world something that did not exist before. Peter Block’s new work focuses on a methodology that may have the capacity to create a distinct future. This methodology is centered around an empowerment that is shared and owned by the community, as well as the responsibility of the team. This methodology is simple as well as powerful. At the base of it are three simple steps:

• Future is transformation; Small groups are the unit of transformation
• Transformation is linguistic; if you change the conversation you can change the world.
• Future arises out of our questions and not our answers;

Leadership as opposed to management can create an alternative future. Management creates predictability, order, structure that is necessary and useful. It does not create an alternative future. Our traditional management system has fallen to the patriarchal modus operandi, where father-child relationship negates the possibility of the team to engage and be accountable. This patriarchal system not only relegates the individual in the hands of managers but also creates an expectation of protection from the manager, which reinforces the inequality of the relationship. At the end of the line of ‘safety’ there is a price to pay, and that is ‘loss of freedom’; at the end of the line of ‘Freedom’, there is also a price to pay and that is ‘anxiety’.

Creating a future that is different from the past comes from creating a different set of conversations. Past is fiction, it is the story of the past. To create a new future, we need to create a new story, a new conversation - conversations that come from questions, carefully framed to create an opportunity for engagement, ownership and commitment. Here is how Peter Block defines each conversation:

One: The Invitation Conversation

(as opposed to mandate)


Transformation occurs through choice, not mandate. Invitation is the call to create an alternative future. What is the invitation we can make to support people to participate and own the relationships, tasks, and process that lead to success? The invitation must contain a hurdle or demand if accepted - a challenge to engage. Most leadership initiatives or training is about how to “enroll” people to do tasks and feel good about doing things they may not otherwise want to do. Change is a self-inflicted wound. People need to “self-enroll” in order to experience their freedom of choice and commitment. The leadership task is to name the debate, issue the invitation, and invest in those who choose to show up. Those who accept the call will bring the next circle of people into the conversation.

Two: The Ownership Conversation
(as opposed to blame)


This is one that focuses on whose organization or task is this? The conversation begins with the question, “how have I contributed to creating the current reality?” Confusion, blame and waiting for someone else to change are a defense against ownership and personal power. The enemy of ownership is indifference. The future is denied with the response, “it doesn’t matter to me—whatever you want to do is fine?” This is always a lie and just a polite way of avoiding a difficult conversation around ownership. People best create for that which they own and co-creation is the bedrock of accountability. It is the belief that I am the cause, not a bystander. The leadership task is to confront people with their freedom.

Three: The Possibility Conversation
(as opposed to problem solving)

This focuses on what we want our future to be as opposed to problem solving the past. This is based on an understanding that living systems are really propelled to the force of the future. The possibility conversation frees people to innovate, challenge the status quo, and create new futures that make a difference. In new work environments this conversation has the ability for breaking new ground and in understanding the prevailing culture. Problem solving and negotiation of interests makes tomorrow only a little different from yesterday. Possibility is a break from the past and opens space for a future we had only dreamed of. Declaring a possibility wholeheartedly is the transformation. The leadership task is to postpone problem solving and stay focused on possibility until it is spoken with resonance and passion.

Four: The Dissent Conversation
(as opposed to lip service)

The Dissent conversation is allowing people the space to say “no”. If we cannot say “no” then our “yes” has no meaning. People have a chance to express their doubts and reservations, as a way of clarifying their roles, needs, and yearnings within the vision and mission being presented. Genuine commitment begins with doubt, and “No” is a symbolic expression of people finding their space and role in the strategy. It is when we fully understand what people do not want that we can fully design what they want. Refusal is the foundation for commitment. The leadership task is to surface doubts and dissent without having an answer to every question.

Five: The Commitment Conversation
(as opposed to barter)

This conversation is about individuals making promises to their peers about their contribution to the success of the whole organization. It is centered in two questions: What promise am I willing to make to this enterprise? And, what is the price I am willing to pay for the success of the whole effort? It is a promise for the sake of a larger purpose, not for the sake of personal return. The leadership task is to reject the concept of barter and demand either authentic commitment or ask people to say no and pass. We need the commitment of much fewer people than we thought to create the future we have in mind.

Six: The Gifts Conversation
(as opposed to deficiencies)

What are the gifts and assets we bring to the enterprise? Rather than focus on our deficiencies and weaknesses, which will most likely not go away, focus on the gifts we bring and capitalize on those. Instead of problematizing people and work, the conversation is about searching for the mystery that brings the highest achievement and success in organizations. Confront people with their essential core that has the potential to make the difference and change lives for good. This resolves the unnatural separation between work and life. The leadership task is to bring the strengths of those on the margin into the center.

People working in small groups create a community, and that community’s conversation of what they want to create together is at the heart of creating a new future.
 

Topics: C-Suite, Employee Engagement

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